I would say the way I do things has definitely changed with Stagen. The biggest difference is the fact that I am self-aware. Whether it’s the drama triangle, listening, or telling myself stories – I am much more self-aware of my emotions and actions.
I may still play a victim, rescuer, or persecutor from time to time but I realize it and can course correct quicker. I am much better at letting people know when my attention is multi-focused and that I want to focus on them if they will let me finish my current thought, email, etc. And I realize when I start going up the ladder of inference and address my concern with the appropriate party.
There are many other things that I am aware of now thanks to Stagen but those are on top of my mind right now. 😊
Thank you,
Steve
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