Re: Committed Action from Nicola
Seth Braun
(11 Jul 2017 16:23 UTC)
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Re: Committed Action from Nicola Hobeiche, Nicola (11 Jul 2017 21:39 UTC)
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Yes! Mostly. With one additional commitment of a commitment to commit when I am back from vacation. 😁 Nicola Hobeiche Managing Director, Assistant General Counsel ORIX USA Corp 214.237.2036 > On Jul 11, 2017, at 11:23 AM, Seth Braun <seth.braun@stagen.com> wrote: > > So, > > Did you come through on your commitment to commit? > > Seth > > Seth Braun | Executive Coach > Seth.Braun@stagen.com | 303.443.6543 > > Stagen | 3535 Travis Street | Suite 100 | Dallas, TX 75204 > p: 214.744.9255 | f: 214.744.0094 | www.stagen.com > <https://urldefense.proofpoint.com/v2/url?u=http-3A__www.stagen.com_&d=DwIGaQ&c=l6wIEjFZ2r6NRbgTeJOW4HMPY8FVASe8l9IlzHzRYYs&r=K3J3Zev6irjtWJbrLyoKFobJx7xjDTOeqpy3VMTGlo4&m=FAsGPVQjGwoDv_TJfWpAvyJrDkKRbsbKSZ9p7i8WItM&s=7LwK8ArVhkPwAUs3LUiCutDiwhVGjbb4PN64-nDB1nA&e= > > > > > > > > On 7/6/17, 10:56 PM, "ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com on behalf of > Hobeiche, Nicola" <ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com on behalf of > Nicola.Hobeiche@orix.com> wrote: > >> Ryan, Bob, Ron and I are working on a legal project that Rand is helping >> us on. In our call today with Rand we ended with our to do list before >> the next call and also our committed actions. Rand made a commitment to >> get us some things by tonight - I have no doubt he will meet his >> commitment to us. Ron, ryan, bob and I made a commitment to each other to >> make a commitment, and having all gone through or being in the ILP, it's >> been really great to be speaking the same language together and >> appreciate what it means to take committed action and also follow through >> on our promise to each other to take committed action. >> It's happening people - it's applying all this skill and knowledge in our >> ORIX world! We are making ripples each of us to get the class before us >> and our class over the top and to the other side. >> Ask me next week if we actually came through on our commitment to commit >> 😉 >> >> Nicola Hobeiche >> Managing Director, Assistant General Counsel >> ORIX USA Corp >> 214.237.2036 >> >>> On Jul 6, 2017, at 5:16 PM, Martin, David <DMartin@marinercapital.com> >>> wrote: >>> >>> Piling on here, agree with below that phrasing as a question, >>> especially if with a subordinate, can leave the request open ended >>> unless the question is around whether a deadline is feasible or not. >>> >>> David Martin >>> Managing Director >>> >>> Mariner Investment Group >>> 1717 Main Street, Suite 900, Dallas, TX 75201 >>> Tel. (214) 237-2128 >>> Mobile (214) 649-6649 >>> >>> Email dmartin@marinercapital.com >>> >>> Attorney Client Privileged and/or Confidential Information >>> >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com >>> [mailto:ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com] On Behalf Of Tharp, Mark >>> Sent: Thursday, June 22, 2017 8:21 AM >>> To: ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com >>> Subject: RE: Committed Action >>> >>> I agree with Jordan. There are definitely instances where to prevent >>> ambiguity or uncertainty phrasing the request as a question will do more >>> harm than good...that said its also critical to keep the request >>> respectful for obvious reasons. >>> >>> MET >>> >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com >>> [mailto:ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com] On Behalf Of Massey, Jordan >>> (OUC) >>> Sent: Wednesday, June 21, 2017 5:55 PM >>> To: ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com >>> Subject: RE: Committed Action >>> >>> I don't necessarily agree. I think it depends on the situation and if >>> it is truly a request or is really a requirement. >>> >>> If it is really a requirement, but presented as a question, you may end >>> up seeming to be manipulative, because there is really only one >>> satisfactory answer and any other answer will not be accepted. At the >>> end of the day - in order to show that committed action concepts are >>> really ok to employ, there has to be a differentiator between a request >>> and a requirement. If the line is cloudy, your audience will assume >>> questions are really demands and the answer always has to be yes. >>> >>> My opinion is that requirements/demands should be stated as such. (EX: >>> Please complete this project by 5pm tomorrow.) >>> >>> >>> Jordan Massey, CPA, CIA | Director | Internal Audit | ORIX USA >>> Corporation | 1717 Main Street, Suite 900 | Dallas, TX 75201 | t >>> | 469-385-1378 c | 214-205-1926 e | jordan.massey@orix.com >>> | www.orix.com | www.orixfoundation.org >>> >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com >>> [mailto:ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com] On Behalf Of Marie Reynolds >>> Sent: Wednesday, June 21, 2017 9:11 AM >>> To: ironlady@stagen.simplelists.com >>> Subject: Re: Committed Action >>> >>> Ryan- thanks for the post. My experiences: >>> >>> Questions stated respectfully and clearly are almost always well >>> received. >>> >>> Statements are received as authoritative "calls to action" (even though >>> this may not be intended) and are not well received most of the time. >>> >>> -Marie >>> >>> Sent from my iPhone >>> >>>> On Jun 21, 2017, at 7:56 AM, Farha, Ryan <Ryan.Farha@orix.com> wrote: >>>> >>>> I've been trying to use Committed Action as much as possible since >>>> learning in the HPP. >>>> >>>> Before HPP, I had a problem with being direct - my concern was rubbing >>>> people the wrong way, or coming off as rude, abrasive, etc. The >>>> Committed Action practice has helped me grow out of that concern. In >>>> fact, when I started using it someone told me she appreciates the >>>> clarity in assignments so she knows what is urgent and what isn't. >>>> It's a useful tool to prioritize for the recipient. >>>> >>>> One other practice point I tried to figure out early on was whether to >>>> frame requests as a question (perhaps with someone senior to you) or a >>>> statement. >>>> >>>> For example, "Jack, can you please . . . ?" versus "Jack, please . . ." >>>> >>>> I mostly frame requests as a questions to show respect to the >>>> recipient. 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