Hello Hemingway!

I used the trust formula to evaluate my relationship with my fiancé. I’m kinda feeling bad for Chase because he has been the subject of most of these tools and assessments over the last few months, ha ha. Although that will be changing, as I’m relocating to NOLA tomorrow and will start my new position on Monday! I’m super excited for the new adventure.

Back to the trust formula, I didn’t get any surprises using the formula with Chase. The lowest component was reliability. I dug into it a bit more and realized that some of the lack of reliability is linked to his overwhelmed schedule (he is working full time and finishing his doctoral program). I think its more situational then him actually not being reliable because it really boils down to smaller insignificant actions where he sometimes doesn’t follow through at home. On all the major decisions, or actions he is pretty solid. Although I do find that I have to manage him… but I’m sure he does the same to me at times.

It will be interesting to see how the dynamic of our relationship changes as we will have to live apart for 3-6 months. It will be interesting.

Ricardo