Thanks for sharing Tony. The only caveat I would add to this is that for
me a perfect marriage doesn¹t exist. It¹s not something I strive towards.
That being said, I mostly relate to the green mindset below.

"A perfect marriage is union of two people that is loving, mutually
respectful and supportive. It allows each of the two to become more than
the two could be individually"  - Green

Here is one of my favorite quotes on marriage: "Marriage is more about
being the right person then marrying the right person.²

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On 7/2/15, 7:49 PM, "Tony Lillios" <tony@nivana.com> wrote:

>In a very interesting coaching call today with Nathanael, we ended up
>talking about the recent Supreme Court ruling on gay marriage.  After his
>probing a bit, I made a statement like,
>
>"I think a perfect marriage is where the energy of each of person
>counters the other's while the two of them being able to constructively
>make decisions to move the relationship forward".
>
>His response was how "Orange" that view was.  And I saw that clearly
>after he said that.  It made me want to express views of marriage through
>other lenses as well.
>
>"A perfect marriage is between a man and a woman that allows them uphold
>their collective traditions and pass them down through their children"  -
>Blue
>
>"A perfect marriage is union of two people that is loving, mutually
>respectful and supportive. It allows each of the two to become more than
>the two could be individually"  - Green
>
>"A perfect marriage is one where my spouse selflessly supports my
>personal and professional pursuits and allows me to live to my full
>potential." - Red
>
>I continue to find the mindsets as a great way to turn judgment and
>reaction into curiosity and exploration.
>
>Happy Fourth everyone.  Stay safe and have a blast!
>
>-tony
>