Dear Paul

> Conscious Communication consideration

Thank you This is very helpful
And  I have posted in my files and started to use them in

Clarifying my language and to focus slowing down to communicate clearly and consciously.
Happy holidays !
Cheers

Thank you Rebecca

> On Apr 2, 2015, at 7:24 AM, Paul Bigham <PBigham@BighamAgency.com> wrote:
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> At the end of our class last week, I mentioned one of the highlights of the day was observing the way Nathanael framed (my definition) his questions and statements. If of interest to any or all, listed below are a few I particularly enjoyed and have added to my Stagen tool box.  Some may not be verbatim and slightly reframed for context, but close enough for . With eloquence and in leading with his heart, Nathanael said:
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> 1. And how I hear that is…
> 2. What I hear is…
> 3. Just to clarify here,…
> 4. Where else does that show up in your life?
> 5. Here is a way of reframing the question,…
> 6. What I learned of myself in this is…
> 7. And to follow up, how did that work for you?
> 8. If you had to put a mirror to yourself, what would have been the reflection?
> 9. So, what is fascinating about that is…
> 10. I noticed that you did/said/etc
> 11. What story is contained in what you are telling me?
> 12. What you are saying is very important,
> 13. Here is how it might sound to me, and…
> 14. What works for me is…
> 15. What doesn’t work for me is…
> 16. What I’d like for you to do is x, which will help us both.
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>
> And one bonus question from Vid:
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> 17. Are you going to shoot me or not, because I really have somewhere to go?
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> In progress,
>
> Paul