Thank you Paul, so much!

Vid's story was exciting, calming, useful & relevant to me!

Chuck Green

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> On Apr 2, 2015, at 9:24 AM, Paul Bigham <PBigham@BighamAgency.com> wrote:
>
> At the end of our class last week, I mentioned one of the highlights of the day was observing the way Nathanael framed (my definition) his questions and statements. If of interest to any or all, listed below are a few I particularly enjoyed and have added to my Stagen tool box.  Some may not be verbatim and slightly reframed for context, but close enough for Conscious Communication consideration. With eloquence and in leading with his heart, Nathanael said:
>
> 1. And how I hear that is…
> 2. What I hear is…
> 3. Just to clarify here,…
> 4. Where else does that show up in your life?
> 5. Here is a way of reframing the question,…
> 6. What I learned of myself in this is…
> 7. And to follow up, how did that work for you?
> 8. If you had to put a mirror to yourself, what would have been the reflection?
> 9. So, what is fascinating about that is…
> 10. I noticed that you did/said/etc
> 11. What story is contained in what you are telling me?
> 12. What you are saying is very important,
> 13. Here is how it might sound to me, and…
> 14. What works for me is…
> 15. What doesn’t work for me is…
> 16. What I’d like for you to do is x, which will help us both.
>
>
> And one bonus question from Vid:
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> 17. Are you going to shoot me or not, because I really have somewhere to go?
>
> In progress,
>
> Paul